I would like to announce that this blog post is being written while my feet are in motion. I'm going nowhere, but that's the beauty of a treadmill desk. I can walk while writing. I can't walk particularly quickly, lest I get all caught up in a thought and forget where I am (dangerous), and also because for reasons of practicality I can't really type while sweating and moving my arms, as one does while pacing at a good clip. So I'm trying out a conservative pace of 1 mile an hour.
One nice thing I've noticed so far: I often drift off while writing, and need to stare out the window and wait to figure out what comes next. Now I can drift off and yet my feet keep moving, so there's a sense of continuity, of going somewhere. I am a woman who loves motion.
One not-so-nice thing I've noticed so far: I tend to feel a little nauseated for the first few minutes after I step off the machine. I do tend toward motion sickness, and can't read while in the car, or even turn around to fetch drinks or settle disputes, which is why I am the driver on long trips, and Kevin is the mediator/snack-dispenser. The queasy feeling doesn't last long, so I'm optimistic that I will get my sea legs, so to speak. My treadmill desk legs. If not, this set-up will still work just as well as a standing desk. The point is not to sit all day.
Photos have been requested. AppleApple took these this morning.
It's surprising how easy it is to type and walk. But I hope that by typing while walking I will not limit myself to typing about walking, if you know what I mean. I do not intend to announce my writing location every single time I get on here to write.
I want to thank the many people who responded to my blog post on making mountains out of piles of dirty laundry. Seems I'm not alone in my parenting angst. To update you: little has changed regarding the bedroom floor, but it has been nice to talk about other things with said child. And said child did spontaneously remove clean folded clothes from the laundry basket and deposit clothes into their proper drawers without being asked. So there's hope.
I feel like this blog is kind of a many-headed monster. It roams the court. One day, you check in and it's nothing but cute photos of my kids. The next, I'm deep into writer-territory. I get philosophical at times, and at other times I aim to entertain. I have no idea what's going to come out when I
sit down stand up to write. That's the joy of writing a blog, although I suppose it keeps this blog from being neatly categorized as one thing or another. On FB I follow the Canadian writer Richard Wagamese whose poetical and inspirational status updates are well worth receiving on a daily basis. He posted lately about giving yourself permission to write spontaneously on any subject that comes to you for 15 minutes every day: a writing practice, if you will.
That's what this blog is, really. A writing practice.
I've spent the day doing chores. It's made me nothing but grumpy. I'll never be done. And the house will never quite be to satisfaction no matter how much I do. I did cut one son's hair, which felt like an accomplishment (that he didn't hate it felt like an even greater one). But the rest of it: changing bedding, vacuuming under things, sorting and discarding and filing and emptying and washing and folding. Argh!!!!! That sums up my feelings on the subject. The day began with the dogs whining before 7am, so I got up and walked them, hoping the rest of the house could sleep a bit longer. Me and two little eager doggies traversing the neighbourhood through freshly fallen snow. I'll admit I enjoyed it. But I started at 7 with duties and responsibilities and it's been nothing but duties and responsibilities ever since. Sometimes I don't feel like an adult at all.
Or maybe it's that I'm tempted to play the artist card -- as in, should I really be spending my precious time on drudgery! Last night, the two older kids and Kevin and I watched part of a movie on the environmental artist Andy Goldsworthy (AppleApple is doing a school project on environmental/nature art). The documentary was a bit slow-moving and I fell asleep, but before I fell asleep I simultaneously found myself admiring the art and the process, and thinking: wow, this man is privileged. "Did he remind you of yourself?" Kevin asked this morning, as we were talking about Goldsworthy's artistic process. "No," I said. "He really didn't."
And then I went off on a (chore-accompanied) diatribe about how there is a reason that women who have four young children don't go off and stick icicles together in foreign countries in pursuit of their art (in the documentary Goldsworthy has four children under the age of 10). The reason is: we really can't. I've yet to meet a woman artist whose husband takes care of the day-to-day minutiae, the child-care, and the domestic logistics so that she can be free to roam inside her own head, pursuing her vision, and disappearing, even if only metaphorically, for days at a time. Sure, those of us with artistic inclinations, who also happen to be women and the mothers of young children, find ways to pursue our ambitions and get things done. But in my experience, it's squeezed in. It's one among a cascade of urgent and important calls. I'm not sure I'd want it any other way, because I'm not over-keen on the notion of artistic privilege. I think it's good to get my hands dirty with the day to day, and I accept the challenge of learning to alter my focus and not on my own whim; to let go. It keeps me from feeding my obsessive compulsive side, at least over-much.
So, as much as I'd like to play the artist card, I think it's best that I can't. It isn't what got me here. (And while I'm on the subject of privilege, this also got me thinking about the privileges I have that I may not recognize: privileges that I live inside of, quite possibly in daily ignorance of the advantages granted me by birthplace, skin colour, class, religion, education, and on and on.)
Okay, one final observation about writing while walking. I really do go on and on! I just don't seem to know when to stop! My sincere apologies for this over-long post, which seems to defy tidy categorization, and which has taken me nearly a mile to write. (And I promise not to report that at the end of every future post.)
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